About crossing hurdles, standing firm on both feet and battling insecurities within...

Friend shared:

"Cus you and i both know that being in a r/s isn't easy ... Anything can happen,
it's a package. Once u choose to be in a relationship, be ready to get hurt. It doesn't come easy... If not, easy way out won't be in a relationship at all.... That's the best, cus you won't get hurt at all. "

And the best analogy of the day.... (i think):

"Everyone has to die one day... u n i both noe tat... everyone fears of death... u n i the same... so.... Since everyone is feelin like tat, includin u...

why not die now?"

"Jus like in a reln... u may get hurt in the end... u noe tat...... Then why not breakup now?

So if u are holdin on to ur dear life cuz u value it... n dunno wats the future gonna be like, reln is the same... "


It's always good to have a friend who can smacked you left right in the face at the right point in time...

There's always tons after tons of worries, fears, obstacles and silly imagination in life...

But eventually it all boils down to how much you value the relationship to steer it in the right direction...

Time to give my imaginative braincells the looooongest holiday ever and do what i think is right and meaningful for us....... Becos i know what i want and we will stand firm. ;)