If i'm a medical student doing my research,

i'll gladly research on

WHY WOMEN SUFFER FROM PMS?

So...

What exactly is PMS?

There's alot of definitions as to what it really is. But like what i've always believed, the men don't get it becos they ermm.... don't get it.

GET IT?

Okays, here's to some definitions what it REALLY is:

It's amazing how the raging hormones in our bodies suddenly fell out of place and the people around us suffer, becos like us, they couldn't understand what's going on too, or worst, how to handle it.

One minute we will be happily stringing the guitar,

Next minute, we will go like this:

The funny thing is, when our puzzled loved ones asked us what's going on, we could give dem a thousand reasons what's up with us. Anything, but P-M-S.

Being angered and under the circumstances that both parties don't know what's going on, petty quarells began.

Leaving both parties hurt, angry and at a loss of what to do.

What you can do is, perhaps, leave the girl alone on her own.

But in this situation, her hormones may lead her to think that NOBODY CARES ABOUT MOI!!!!

And then, her imaginative, dramatic mind will start to lead her to somewhere that might be of total disadvantage to you:

1) Does he love me still?

2) Why doesn't he care? Is he in love with someone else?

3) Ahh! Nobody loves me!

Or give her a huge tub of ice-cream, preferably chocolate flavour, to calm her nerves. Example:

This usually works, not only becos can you stay away frm the "danger zone" and reduces the possibility of you getting electrified for no apparent reason, it also shows her how much you truly care for her, cos' you bothered to take the "RISK" and buys her something she loves to eat.

Or bring her for a walk, rebuild your relationship, and let her know you're always there for her when she's feelin' down and out.

Let her pour out everything dat is bothering her (Though 90% of it makes no much sense), and try to lend her a listening ear or sayang sayang her to make her feel less vulnerable.

As she feels your understanding and patience, aloha! Everything is solved swee sweely.

Afterall, what we gers reallie need during some times of the month, is simply lotsa love, understanding and a whole lot of assurance and food to stop our wandering minds, scary imagination, endless abs cramps and raging hormones.

It's always hard to know wad the other gender is thinking, but what we can do, is to be more patient, learn to listen with our ears, and be sensitive enough to know when he/she is not feeling right.

The next time if you see me not reacting reasonably, please refer to this post again. :D