Just read Holly-Jean's latest entry on meeting your ex.

It has been 5 weeks since they've met, and she thought she's strong enough to meet him like an old friend.

Bullshit.

She soon proved herself wrong.

Give me $100billion dollars & i still believe it's a self-deceiving act to meet someone of the past, especially when the wound is rather raw.

Unless you still harbour hopes of patching things back with him or you want to get back the $20 you lent him 3months ago . That's another story, but that's stupidity too, either way.

Irregardless of how you guys broke off, even if it's done in an extremely friendly way,

DON'T DO IT. NEVER.

Never agree to meet up as normal friends. You have enough friends.

Don't even think of loitering under his block with hopes of catching a glimpse of him or hoping he spots you & runs over for a big reunion hug.

Well, I know of silly girls who do that to that bloody arsehole who broke my heart. AND i've heard it with my own ears, how he scoffed at them and told me those girls were losers and "professional stalkers".

I gotta admit sometimes i've the urge to do that too, but have not garner enough guts to splash hot soup on pple's face & run away. Dammit. I should go training.

Errr... So... Anyway, don't poke a knife into that already open wound and continue stabbing it endlessly.

A breakup goodbye also means bye and get out of my life.

It's YOUR dignity you have to fight for. Don't do things u'll regret later.

If you chose to meet up with that arse, it's damn difficult to maintain sanity and stay composed.

Any signs of weaknesses shown before him, will only take away more of your dignity and show him how much you actually need him.

Once is a lesson learnt. Twice is pure stupidity.

And sometimes... it simply takes a whole lifetime to heal completely. You will never forget that last few moments before the breakup took place. You won't forget the pain nor this person, not that you still like him.

So why bother to meet up? And act like nothing happened?

By agreeing/requesting to meet, you're ALREADY screaming "i neeeeed youuuu!"

Don't feed his ego. Don't do it. Be good to yourself.

Don't be one of those silly women out there who leave him adoring smses or stalk him on facebook & msn. In his eyes, you'll only be slightly better than a toy. Move on, quit him.

Even if he's a really good boyfriend to you, things still went wrong somewhere, that's why you guys broke up. No point to drag the shit.

You're different. You're different. YES, you heard me.

You're different.