You are perhaps the N person who asked if i ever get affected after listening to
N breakup stories.:

guy-dump-gal stories... gal-dump-guy-for-another stories... ugly-divorce-ends-up-in-hate stories...

And recently, a long time childhood friend of mine is prepared to sign the divorce papers with his wife who just gave birth.

It's just difficult for me NOT to get affected.

Especially if 2 gals came crying to me in msn on the same night and i'd to listen to their stories...

While on the other hand, i might have to congratulate another friend who just got happily and blissfully attached.

Now i know why sometimes i can be extremely happie for a second, then feeling extremely negative the next.

I've been trained well all these years !! Hiak Hiak. Dat's why.

My mood fluctuates faster than the shares i think. Haha.

But it's a good thing, no matter what. To share people's woes as well as their happiness. Tiring? Maybe lor. In the process sometimes it gets frustrating when they can't digest what you're trying to say.

Yet i've long learnt how to let them trebble on the rocks first, cry till they are near blind, scream how this world is unfair to them, scold everyone on their list, then seeing them *bling* and wake up someday forgetting they ever did all these, or when was the last time they cried for this guy/gal.

Everyone will get through someone eventually. It just takes time.

Eerie right?

But that's life, where people can be sadly replaced. :(
Whether at work or in love. Somehow. And you'll never know why. Becos all you've heard, will just be dumb excuses. I'm not referring to myself, of cos.
(Of cos, there are people who share everlasting love too, like a pair of secondary school friends who got together since 16. And they will get ROM next sept. :) )

I've been through this process . Alot of my close friends or friends' friends went through deeper shit too.

Right now, what i see is, they are all leading their lives VERY well.

Some people got out of the deep hole. Some people still prefer sticking to it. While some just no longer believe in it.

Whatever. Just lead a normal life and disgust yourself with that old you. Tell urself you will NEVER hopefully go through that again.

Then be glad that that happened. Without that phase, perhaps you will never grow strong enough to go through tougher hurdles next time.

Everything happens for a reason.

And i believe there's always a drafted plan for us.

Don't get me wrong, i still and will always love to be auntie agony, i guess. It's always nice to share stories. Just don't ask me the same question next time,

"Will u get affected hearing so many stories?"

I will.

But some people are just born to listen. And some people are born to be speakers. So everyone has their job, and it will be terrible if everyone talks,
but nobody to listen right?

Hahaha..

Digressing...

I told my pupils a portion of china history today. The boys were damn excited, gals just plain uninterested (as usual).

Maybe boys more attracted to a female trs? Hahaha.... Tokk crap....

I impressed myself by stating the history facts correctly. Always sucks in history since secondary. Heh heh. Chinese history = BORRRRING........

Time to learn more from Mr. Seow. He's a history expert :)