a paradise where nobody knows

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

- Just... RANDOM -

I can use my soles to clap!!!

Am i turning into a "flying" seaguLL?

Muahaha........ Winkz* Thanks for making my "superman" dream came true :)
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I lurrrrvve this pic!!! >.<
And fren says he likes me in all black dat day. Black blouse, black jeans, black ballet pumps and black eyeliner!! Woo!! Rocker~

And so i met a funny guy who says he wana eat the thing in red for lunch :P

To sum it up, the funny guy & the almost in-training funny ger got together and spent a pretty simple,relaxing day in T1,T2,T3 watching planes taking off and landing, coupled with plenty of cold jokes, a good T3 dinner and sleepy bus trip home.

It's awesomeness to have someone who enjoys doing simple tgs together with u and doesn't find you boring.
:)

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A friend asked... Whether is she considered a "player"....

For once i asked myself in the head, "So... What's the definition of a player?"

Another fren chupped into the conversation and gave his views on what is a player... And yes, he said she's one...

So... Wad's a player?

A player is one who goes around flirting & breaking people's hearts and still feels nothing. Practically empty.

A player is one who goes on dates with people not for love, but for other needs.

A player is one who refuses to settle down with just a partner becos everyone in his/her eyes is just simply too attractive to resist.

A player is someone who is never satisfied and always on the go, looking for easy preys who fall for their sweet nothings & romantic gestures.

Nope.

If you ask me, i honestly don't think you're one.

Perhaps we all go through this phase called the "i-donno-who-i-wan-till-i-meet-dat-someone" stage.

But that doesn't justify you as someone who is fickle, or a "player". Most probably, i will think that you need time to understand what you want, and time to see who will be with you at the finishing line.

Perhaps he's a sad rebound, i donno, given the lapse time between the previous one and this is so short. And everyone needs love, attention, TLC and alot of ....... active hormones, as what you've said. Haha....

And i see him as the "ka-long" in MJ, where he fits nicely in between 2 tiles.

But the rebound isn't there to stir up your emotions, or to make you feel confused.

From what i've observed, most people will not recognise the "in-between" guy as the rebound, until things dont work out, you thought about it, and tell yourself, "Okay, things didn't work out becos ... WELL... He's just a rebound."

This isn't fair. But at the same time, it's unstoppable.

It's just too fast. Hopping on ships. One after another. Just like what you were experiencing in the past. Why not take steps back. Why not slow down the pace.

Be the silent observer. Just like who you always are.

You told us, that you aren't doing anything. But from what i see, actually your legs are already dangling halfway into the frontseat.

So...... My only advice would be:

Always take the backseat first. It's always good to protect yourself from hurt, and at the same time, enjoying the breeze along the way. Always remember how the last dating scene ended, and remind yourself not to repeat the mistakes again.

But well...

It's your choice eventually. As long as you're happy, i'll be glad to see more smiles coming:)

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