Just Wad I'm Lookin' For! (o_O)


Sony Ericsson W910i

OR

Sony Ericsson K850i

This?

$10 difference... The W910i has only 2Mp Camera while the K850i has 5Mp...

W910i is more stylo milo with red color and the latest in-fashion thing slide phone.... (i love red recently! auntie-ish signs getting obvious..ahhhhh....)

And K850i looks a little bulky and the colours are... ewww.... Not my cuppa...

Okay! Decided... 2MP also not bad oleadie lah...
Don't need so good camera also can.....

No good camera = no flaws shown on face = Swee ah! Muahaha.....

And it's like too good a deal to be missed.... For those who are looking for good plans + cheap phones, take action before 14th March okayz! =)

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It's funny how two people have the same thoughts, same intentions, but becos of the way u phrase it or the tone that you speak.... Causes unnecessary tension and arguments which will eventually lead to unhappiness...

Fren just made me realised whenever i desperately tried getting answers from questions idling in my head, or trying to get my points across to him, i will always ask "WHY?WHY?WHY?" questions...

Which could be very hurting to the relationship and unfair to the other party too.

Instead of asking "WHY!? Har.. Why like that??", maybe i can try to put it in a way ... Like open for discussion, eg:

"Today's weather quite hot.... What do you tink?"

Before asking the question, i MUST TRY VERY HARD NOT TO put my own judgemental point in it... After hearing what he has to say, i will then share with him what i think and from there... We will definitely find a common point... Which will solve the problem, answer my questions and be happily ever after... haha....

2-way Communication is really important, esp. for people like me who doesn't know how to communicate well... As in, i don't really know how to tell people how i feel towards something.... Or why am i thinking this way... I can be chatty, but when it comes to things like getting my intentions known to someone or sharing how i feel, i still lack the skills of doing it well.....

Usually in the end, the person will misunderstood my intentions, and while desperately trying to explain myself, i will then be agitated(cos i felt dat my point is misunderstood or twisted) and we will end up quarelling....

Or i will just end up not talking anymore cos i don't feel good that my words/intentions are not comprehended well....

It's a good learning point i've picked up i think...

I've always thought in the past that.... if you understand me well, you will.

But now, i think it's impossible.

If i don't even make an effort to all0w the other person to understand me better.... How will he ever be able to do it?

Vice versa applies.

Communication goes a long way... It either breaks a relationship or draws distances closer... Most imptly, is how much effort both of you are willing to put in to make things work...

Always remember: If you feel agitated before/during the discussion, tried repeating the questions in your head 20 times before you eventually said it out. In this way, you won't feel that agitated and you might be able to rephrase your sentence better as well....

Well, Fren also gave this suggestion: 对着镜子一直不停的傻笑，直到你不再生气为止。

（^-^lll) I think.... My suggestion is better. Erm... Sounds more normal?Muahaha........